Minute of Reconciliation

Those gathered for the Discernment for Unity session on May 4, 2021 carefully considered the rewording of our minute and came to unity on the wording below. This minute of reconciliation was approved by Abington Friends Meeting on May 10, 2021:

After considerable reflection and discernment, Abington Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) believes that if we are to truly uphold our Testimony of Equality, Equity and Justice and honor the legacy of Quaker abolitionists and equal-rights activists such as Benjamin Lay and Lucretia Mott, we must also acknowledge and take active steps to redress the evils they fought against. We wish to engage in racial reconciliation and healing through acknowledging, apologizing, and atoning for wrongs our Meeting has committed in the past that influence the present. We acknowledge that the land our meetinghouse and school currently occupy was once home for the Lenni-Lenape. We also acknowledge that early members of our Meeting were members of the white settler population which benefited from the takeover of land and from the violence committed against Indigenous Peoples as a result of such actions as the Doctrine of Discovery, the Walking Purchase and Quaker Indian Boarding Schools. We acknowledge that some early members of our Meeting were enslavers and that the enslavement of Africans contributed to the accumulated wealth we have today. We apologize for these truths not being fully acknowledged by us sooner and because these actions have contributed to the physical and emotional trauma still being experienced today. We wish to atone for these past oppressions and injustices in the hope of bringing healing through retrospective justice to African Americans and Indigenous Peoples. To this end, we have set up the Bothwell Reparations Fund to which members and attenders may contribute. Also, we will continue with our deeper education to better understand and seek a renewed and ongoing right relationship.

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New to Abington Friends Meeting?

All are welcome here!
We invite newcomers to attend Meeting for Worship and other activities at Abington Friends Meeting! Please come for a visit!

At the heart of Quaker spiritual experience is the understanding that there is something sacred and holy within each of us—a power that connects us all and transcends our individual selves. Friends use many names to describe this “greater something”: Universal Love, The Divine, The Seed, God, the Spirit, the Inward Light, the Christ Within, among others . Whatever name we use, we believe this presence is accessible to everyone, and that each person can listen for Divine or Universal Truth in their own heart.

Our worship and decision-making practices are rooted in this belief—that together, we can listen for and be guided by Universal or Divine Truth. Our Guiding Principles, or Testimonies—of Integrity, Equality, Peace, Simplicity, Community , and Stewardship—flow from this living and immediate experience of the Spirit.

Affirming the sacredness and equality of every individual, we warmly welcome people of all faiths, spiritual journeys, ages, nationalities, races and ethnicities, sexual orientations, and gender identities. Because we recognize this inherent sacredness and equality in everyone, we do not have a single minister or pastor; instead, we believe that all who gather with us in worship are potential ministers.

Our worship begins with a period of silent prayer or quiet centering, allowing each of us to become still and attentive. After a period of time, if anyone feels moved by the Spirit to speak, they are welcome to stand and share a brief message. We ask that each person speak only once during worship, and that a period of silence follows each message, so that every message can be fully heard and received.

Toward the close of our worship, there will be an opportunity to share joys, sorrows, and prayer requests. We conclude worship by shaking hands, followed by time for visitors’ introductions and brief announcements. Afterwards, on most Sundays, we invite everyone to join us for a coffee break and fellowship across the hall in our John Barnes Room. Sometimes we also offer educational programming or other special activities.

We are grateful for your presence with us and hope you will feel at home in this community of seeking, listening, and shared spiritual experience.

This testimony from eighteenth century Friend, John Woolman sums this up well:
“There is a principle which is pure, placed in the human mind, which in different places and ages hath different names; it is, however, pure and proceeds from God. It is deep and inward, confined to no forms of religion nor excluded from any where the heart stands in perfect sincerity. In whomsoever this takes root and grows, of what nation soever, they become brethren.”

Here is some helpful information:
Our official name is: Abington Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends. We are called "monthly" because we meet once a month to attend to business, but we have meeting for worship every Sunday.

Indoor Meeting for Worship
10:00 AM until 11:00 AM
Year-round

Outdoor Meeting for Worship
Every Sunday, mid-June - early September (weather permitting)
10:00 AM until 11:00 AM (happening at the same time as indoor Meeting for Worship)
In addition to our normal indoor Meeting for Worship, we hold optional outdoor Meetings behind the Meeting House during the summer.

Programming for Children and Youth (also called First Day School)
Youth Programming (grades k - 8)
Every Sunday, September - May
10:00 - 11:00 am
Childcare (all children younger than kindergarten)
Every Sunday, year-round
9:45 - 11:15, with additional times to support adult class and Meeting for Business, September - May
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Adult Classes
Occasional Sundays, September – May
11:15 AM. All ages welcome.

First Day School for Adults consists of talks and activities that provide a Quaker perspective on the issues and challenges of everyday life.

Parking
Members and attenders park on the right side of the driveway leading up to the Meeting House (accessible from our entrance on Greenwood Avenue) or in the parking lot on the west side of the Meeting House. Please note that our meetinghouse driveways are one-way, so vehicles must enter from Greenwood Avenue and exit onto Meetinghouse Road.

Orientation
As you enter the Meetinghouse, which is what we call our place of worship, the room where the Meeting gathers will be the first door on your right. The John Barnes Room, which is where we meet for adult classes and special events will be the first door on your left.

Meeting Etiquette

Because Quakers worship in silence, please lower your voice when approaching the Meeting House before Meeting for Worship. Likewise, please silence your cellphone.

There is no pastor or minister. Instead, attenders rise and speak when the Spirit moves them, generally keep their comments brief and of a spiritual, heartfelt nature, and allow ample time for others to reflect on what has been said before rising to speak. Statements often have a common thread; however, this is not a requirement.

Safety & Security Reminders- For the Good of the Community

Any use of space indoors or outdoors needs to be scheduled through Salma in the Meeting office. AMM@abingtonfriends.net
If you are meeting after First Day Worship or any other time when Salma, Mike or Ed are not immediately available, please remember to lock both Short Stable doors and/or the meetinghouse (whichever you have used) when you leave. All clerks with codes should also remember to set the alarm after using the meetinghouse. Otherwise, the buildings may be open for a substantial period of time before Mike, Ed or Salma return to the property. Thank you for your ongoing cooperation.
Please remember that our meetinghouse driveway is One Way. We have had some incidents with cars exiting the property the wrong way. Please remember to enter by Greenwood Avenue, and exit only onto Meetinghouse Road. One Way signs are posted along the driveway.
When you are present at the meetinghouse, please remember to wear your nametag. If you need a nametag, please sign up on the list just below the nametag shelf in the John Barnes Room.
The sections of the meetinghouse closest to the East Wing have been designated as an area to be used ONLY for Friends who choose to wear masks. We ask that Friends who wish to be unmasked kindly sit elsewhere in the meetinghouse. Friends wearing masks are still welcome to sit anywhere, but we acknowledge that some Friends prefer to sit only near others with masks on. Please maintain safe distancing, because comfort levels vary among Friends, and some Friends are higher risk.
We have at least one Friend in our Abington Meeting community who suffers from a fragrance allergy, and that Friend has sometimes had to leave meetings for worship and other Meeting activities due to this sensitivity. We ask Friends to kindly refrain from wearing perfumes, colognes and scented products when you come to the meetinghouse.

Community & Housekeeping Reminders

Food and beverages are not permitted in the meetinghouse. Please enjoy your refreshments in the John Barnes Room or on the porch.
Please kindly remember that it is up to committees or groups to set up and clean up for any event they are running.
When you visit our meetinghouse property on Sundays or for special events at other times, please do not park on the grass.
Many of us consider our meetinghouse to be a second home, so as a friendly reminder, please treat the Meeting property as though it really is your home: Pick up trash, wash and dry your dishes, turn off the lights, and lock doors on your way out. Please remember that we do not have a Caretaker to clean up, so we all share this responsibility. Thank you, Friends!
Please rinse all items before putting them in the recycling bin. Please remember that ALL items with recycling codes (such as plastic cups) go in the recycling bins - there has been some tendency to put some recyclables in the trash, and then the trash has to be sorted.

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